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The Self-Development Community

The community for self-development junkies seeking friends for the journey of personal growth.

Deep and meaningful just got more fun.

We host monthly meet-ups exploring a variety of personal-development topics to help inspire your journey of personal growth.

Quotes we like

Edit your life ruthlessly and frequently.
It’s your masterpiece after all.

Anonymous

Support

Big audacious goals are what we LOVE at SELF which is why our meet-ups include goal sharing to help you find a group of cheerleaders and accountability buddies to keep you committed. It’s also truly inspiring to hear what others achieve, plus it gives you the motivation to stick with it, and fresh ideas to try something new.

Enlighten

Life is never flat when there are sparks of inspiration everywhere. SELF meet-ups have this way of creating such a buzz that you can’t sleep afterwards. With people sharing their ideas, their goals, and their journeys, along with the general high vibe of the evening; it’s hard to settle down and quieten that mind when you’ve just been given a pick and mix of things to explore. It’s the natural high of SELF.

Find people who are 
unafraid of talking 
about the deep stuff.

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Learning

Each month our meet-ups offer expert speakers and specialists sharing  knowledge about their topics. This is your chance to dive a little deeper into a topic you want to learn more about on your personal-development journey, and ask those burning questions. We also get the community to vote on which topics they want to hear about next, so it never gets dull. These talks aim to give you something to learn, explore,  so you walk away feeling like you’ve discovered another path to investigate.

Friendship

We know first-hand that personal growth also comes with outgrowing others. Change isn’t for everyone, and your self-development journey can at times feel lonely. No-one gets you, or worse, think you’re going through a midlife crisis (we’ve been there, and got the T-shirt). At SELF our biggest aim through our meet-ups is to help you find friends for this beautiful journey. We’re all about building those deep, meaningful friendships where you can talk for hours about the things that are lighting you up.

Meet-ups

Our SELF Meet-ups are for people who are passionate about their self-development. Each meetup is based on a different self-development topic so you can continue to learn, grow and develop yourself. Our informal SELF meet-ups allow you to meet like-minded people who are also on their self-development journey.

Each month our meetups give you the opportunity to gain support for your self-development, a little enlightenment, learn something new, and make friends on your journey. It’s a space where you can put more focus on you and your goals.

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Mastermind

Our SELF Mastermind is for self-development junkies who desire mentorship and coaching on their goals and challenges. In the masterminds, we go much deeper on personal development topics and help you take practical action.

In this closed group you will be part of an intimate tribe who not only inspire each other, but guide each other on all the big, and exciting challenges you're finding on your journey.  As well as group coaching and mentoring, you will meet like-minded people who are there to be your cheerleaders in life. To create the intimacy and connection within the group, SELF mastemind sizes are kept to a minimum, and entry to the mastemind is on an application basis. 

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SELF Supper Club

To us, there's nothing better than enjoying good conversations with great food. The two were meant for each other, and this is what our SELF Supper Club is all about. We want to bring people together who love those deep, philosophical  personal-growth conversations, while sharing delicious food.  

SELF Supper Clubs change location and venue every time. This not only keeps things interesting, but enables you to discover somewhere new, and tick if off your own bucket list. 

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Since 2018, SELF has expanded online with over 600 members 
across the UK, and a growing community in Europe and the US. 
(Thanks covid for making us go online.)
Hey, we’re Dean & Lizzie, and we are self-confessed personal development junkies. Books, podcasts, courses, coaches, habit changing, spirituality, mindset and mindfulness; you name it we absorb it. But we know the journey is never-ending, and that’s what makes it so exciting (and slightly addictive).

SELF (The Self-Development Community) was born from this love of exploring self-development topics. From that joy you get from improving your habits, learning from others and following that breadcrumb trail that leads you to exploring another part of yourself you hadn’t yet discovered.

Everything gets better when you work on yourself. You know yourself more deeply, you contribute more consciously, and the world around you just gets better.

Lizzie kick started SELF in May 2018, when feeling rather lonely about her own personal development journey. She longed to go to a casual meet-up where she could bring together like-minded people who are passionate about self-development, learn something new, make friends and gain accountability for big goals. Basically, she just wanted to make friends who would listen to her go on about the books she had read, or the course she had just completed.

Dean was a SELF supporter from the very beginning, attending all of the first meet-ups, and doing a number of talks himself on his inspirational entrepreneurial journey. But as Dean began investing even more into his own personal growth he has seen first-hand how self-development is a truly transformational practice.

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No matter where you are in your personal-development journey, we want to create a community where together we are all in it to get better. Regardless of age, gender or ethniticy; we welcome people from all walks of life. To enjoy our meet-ups there is no commitment. Simply show up. The only thing we ever ask of our community is to show up with an open heart and an open mind.

Be assured that even if you're new to SELF all are welcome. If you're feeling shy, why not bring along a friend for your first one? We promise that you'll feel at ease in our community of warm and friendly folks, and you'll soon feel the feel-good factor of joining us. 

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Join the journey

Our mission and purpose at SELF is to connect people through the topic of personal growth, and to help more people access transformational experiences which can change lives. We've both experienced first-hand how 'doing the work' - the deep, personal, and often uncomfortable work, leads to a more vibrant, abundant life where you're truly living on your own terms, rather than simply existing. Growth is never easy, but we certainly try to make it more fun and supportive at SELF.

We can all lead lives that have a positive impact. When we live more consciously we have a greater impact on people and planet. We hope you'll join us with making the most out of life. 


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